When Patricia Heaton, who portrayed the iconic Debra Barone on Everybody Loves Raymond, finally spoke out about the popular sitcom, her revelation left viewers in shock. In a rare and poignant interview, the Emmy-winning actress talked candidly about her years on the program and how it continues to influence her life.

Working with Ray Romano, Doris Roberts, Brad Garrett, and Peter Boyle was “the hardest job and the greatest gift” of Heaton’s career, she said. Although she acknowledged that there were tense moments on site, she also talked about how the group bonded like family and their relationship has endured long after the series ended.

When Heaton disclosed the show’s sometimes astounding popularity, fans were taken aback. She said, “We didn’t realize how huge it was until after it ended,” adding that she is still stopped by people on the street who quote Debra. She also spoke heartily about the late Peter Boyle and Doris Roberts, referring to them as “the heart” of the family.

With fans swarming social media to proclaim Everybody Loves Raymond one of the best comedies ever produced, her candor has rekindled affection for the cherished series. Even though the program ended years ago, Patricia Heaton’s open remarks demonstrate that the memories and the humor will endure.